I am here in Lake Bluff, IL and I'm looking out my hotel window at 10 am (central time) and I am seeing the mounds of snow piled up and thinking, "Yeah, it would be hard to get inside the schools today." and understanding why school was cancelled for the third day in the row. Understand, folks, here outside of Chi-town - that just doesn't happen! Down south where I am, well, we would have closed before the snow had ever come - just the mere thought. And this much snow on the ground would have still been covering our streets. Here, you can drive well on all highways, and most major roads. The side roads vary from passable to "how will we ever get out?" The sidewalks are non-existent. I told my contact person at Woodland MIddle School, Gurnee, IL, that they probably would lose some of the sixth graders that had to walk because the piles of snow on the side are so deep.
But in this business - cancellations, delays and postponements happen. This is actually more of a postponement than a cancellation. I even have a bad weather clause in my Agreement Letter - "Bad Weather Exception: If the program is cancelled due to bad weather, then the lodging, meals and transportation will be paid for the day, but the programming cost will be refunded or not charged. Further, if the program is cancelled due to bad weather, another date for the presentation will be negotiated between Performer and Schools. There will be no additional cost if the programming date can be done within a month (or other specified time) of date. Any programming after that date will incur lodging, meals and transportation costs." The hardest part is how to deal with the additional costs added to coming back, but it always seems to work out.
However, today's cancellation, as for all changes, is always a blessing. I'm not certain what that blessing might be right now (except I got to sleep in late), but I will take advantage of finishing up e-mails and making adjustments to my detailed Winter Schedule. Here's one thing I've learned about the "suprises" in my job - never see it as a negative, but trust that God has got a plan and move accordingly. Peace and stay safe, my friends.
Friday, February 4, 2011
Tuesday, January 11, 2011
Two hour delay
So, all week long the news has been about getting ready for the "wintry mix" and brace yourself for ice. Young Audiences of Virginia scheduling Director, Anna Heywood, sent me an e-mail to keep alert. I prepared myself last night by "bookmarking" the websites for the two school districts I was going to be performing in. Then I went and watched the BCS Bowl Game, got home late, woke up early and looked online: First School: 2 Hours Delayed. Yeah! A little extra sleep.
However, my Scheduling Director was not asleep, she was busy trying to rearrange the time of my program so that I could a) fulfill an obligation, b) give the students a great arts experience, and c) continue my revenue flow. Gotta love all those reasons, and I love Anna for working so hard.
One of the "downsides" of running a business are when you have no control over the "natural" things that happen. I have been postponed for programming due to weather, and not gotten paid on that day. I have been delayed an hour or more, and had to change later in the day in programming or transportation arrangements. I have been snowed in my hotel room and had to creep across the parking lot to get a hot meal, before I went stir crazy. I have had the joy of sitting in the nook of a warm kitchen with a friend, as we worked on computers across from each other, watched the snow pile up (and then melt) and drink tons of coffee! (Thanks, Christa.) All uncontrollable by me, but this I have learned - God makes a way.
I have rarely seen cancellations, postponements or delays as terrible - it's just life. How I deal with these things is the proof of my character - for good or bad. I think that's how we need to think of anything that happens through our day. Yes, we might get cancelled, but then can we enjoy a leisurely day watching the snow fall. Yes, we might get postponed, but the reality is the money will come later. Yes, we might get delayed, but look around maybe there is aomething at that moment that we could otherwise be doing....or we can get some more sleep. :) Peace, my friends.
However, my Scheduling Director was not asleep, she was busy trying to rearrange the time of my program so that I could a) fulfill an obligation, b) give the students a great arts experience, and c) continue my revenue flow. Gotta love all those reasons, and I love Anna for working so hard.
One of the "downsides" of running a business are when you have no control over the "natural" things that happen. I have been postponed for programming due to weather, and not gotten paid on that day. I have been delayed an hour or more, and had to change later in the day in programming or transportation arrangements. I have been snowed in my hotel room and had to creep across the parking lot to get a hot meal, before I went stir crazy. I have had the joy of sitting in the nook of a warm kitchen with a friend, as we worked on computers across from each other, watched the snow pile up (and then melt) and drink tons of coffee! (Thanks, Christa.) All uncontrollable by me, but this I have learned - God makes a way.
I have rarely seen cancellations, postponements or delays as terrible - it's just life. How I deal with these things is the proof of my character - for good or bad. I think that's how we need to think of anything that happens through our day. Yes, we might get cancelled, but then can we enjoy a leisurely day watching the snow fall. Yes, we might get postponed, but the reality is the money will come later. Yes, we might get delayed, but look around maybe there is aomething at that moment that we could otherwise be doing....or we can get some more sleep. :) Peace, my friends.
Wednesday, January 5, 2011
Little Diddies
Do you remember some of the "little diddies", short songs, that you learned at a younger age in life? I think that must have been communication for my mother to me, because songs always find their way bubbling to the surface. Not just hymns and spirituals (although I am well grounded in them), but the short, and sometimes silly, songs. Some I still remember.
"Rhoda, where are you going? Upstairs to take a bath. Rhoda with legs like toothpicks and a neck like a giraffe. Rhoda turned off the water. Rhoda took out the plug. Oh, my goodness, bless my soul, there goes Rhoda down the hole. Rhoda, there are you going? Glub, glub, glub." (the last words said as if Rhoda has gone down the hole). Why would I even know this song? What was its purpose? Why did my mother teach it to me? She still knows the song and she finds it funny that she and I still remember it.
I have done the same to my son. Here's one of my songs with and for him, "I got my boots on and I'm goin' a-walkin'. Got my boots on, and I'm goin' a-stompin'. Got my boots on and I'm filling like a man. I got my b-o-o-t-s on." I started singing this to my son when he got his first pair of boots. He was a little guy - 3 or 4 and he wore those boots for days, stomping around the house. (Makes me wonder if my mother wanted me to get out of the bathtub - if the songs have purpose, that is. :)
Why did all this come up now? Well, I'm always making up songs, particularly for my pre-school programs, but for other stories as well. Some songs are a moment and some are here to say. "It's cold outside" was made up so I could have song about the changes in the season. Yesterday I needed a song about manners, so here it is:
Please, thank you and how do you do
Excuse me, sir, and after you
These are the words that we say
When we are polite, each and every day.
So, what are your "little diddies"? If don't have any - just let me know and I'll send you some of mine. :) Peace and belief.
"Rhoda, where are you going? Upstairs to take a bath. Rhoda with legs like toothpicks and a neck like a giraffe. Rhoda turned off the water. Rhoda took out the plug. Oh, my goodness, bless my soul, there goes Rhoda down the hole. Rhoda, there are you going? Glub, glub, glub." (the last words said as if Rhoda has gone down the hole). Why would I even know this song? What was its purpose? Why did my mother teach it to me? She still knows the song and she finds it funny that she and I still remember it.
I have done the same to my son. Here's one of my songs with and for him, "I got my boots on and I'm goin' a-walkin'. Got my boots on, and I'm goin' a-stompin'. Got my boots on and I'm filling like a man. I got my b-o-o-t-s on." I started singing this to my son when he got his first pair of boots. He was a little guy - 3 or 4 and he wore those boots for days, stomping around the house. (Makes me wonder if my mother wanted me to get out of the bathtub - if the songs have purpose, that is. :)
Why did all this come up now? Well, I'm always making up songs, particularly for my pre-school programs, but for other stories as well. Some songs are a moment and some are here to say. "It's cold outside" was made up so I could have song about the changes in the season. Yesterday I needed a song about manners, so here it is:
Please, thank you and how do you do
Excuse me, sir, and after you
These are the words that we say
When we are polite, each and every day.
So, what are your "little diddies"? If don't have any - just let me know and I'll send you some of mine. :) Peace and belief.
Tuesday, January 4, 2011
Cancellation/Postponement
Today I had to cancel and then postpone my performance at Miller School, Charlottesville, VA. I will tell you this is the worst case scenario for me - cancellation on the day of performance. I think this has happened (not including weather related) only two other times in my life. Now I don't count my Worldstrides evening programs, because I have wonderful performers and we just trade positions and they get to perform.
But to cancel on the date of performance is for me breaking the cardinal rule of performance. Right now I just feel bad and yet, it could not be helped.....and yet, I feel bad....and yet....do you see the circle?
So how do we as performers make a cancellation "right"? First, immediate contact and as much disclosure as possible about circumstances. Call the moment you know things are falling apart, even if it's early in the morning or late at night. Second, a date offered immediately. Never call without another date available. Third, return any and all money, or, if it's a free show - give above and beyond the the next time. Instead of one show, give two. Do something special by visiting classrooms, etc. Fourth, and this is my hardest, work out the problem, the reason for the cancellation, fix it if possible, and forgive myself and move on. As I said the hardest.
Sometimes "the show must go on" and sometimes you have to close the curtain, apologize to the audience, return the money and invite them back for a different night at no cost. Then go back behind the curtain, quietly or loudly scream, fix the problem, get a good stiff drink (lemonade or Southern Comfort - pick your poison :), and go to sleep. The next day wake up and live life.
But to cancel on the date of performance is for me breaking the cardinal rule of performance. Right now I just feel bad and yet, it could not be helped.....and yet, I feel bad....and yet....do you see the circle?
So how do we as performers make a cancellation "right"? First, immediate contact and as much disclosure as possible about circumstances. Call the moment you know things are falling apart, even if it's early in the morning or late at night. Second, a date offered immediately. Never call without another date available. Third, return any and all money, or, if it's a free show - give above and beyond the the next time. Instead of one show, give two. Do something special by visiting classrooms, etc. Fourth, and this is my hardest, work out the problem, the reason for the cancellation, fix it if possible, and forgive myself and move on. As I said the hardest.
Sometimes "the show must go on" and sometimes you have to close the curtain, apologize to the audience, return the money and invite them back for a different night at no cost. Then go back behind the curtain, quietly or loudly scream, fix the problem, get a good stiff drink (lemonade or Southern Comfort - pick your poison :), and go to sleep. The next day wake up and live life.
Wednesday, December 29, 2010
Reflect, plan and rest
As a part of "Speakers Group" on linkedin.com, a discussion was begun with the question - "In your expert opinion, what do we need to be doing during this last week of 2010 to make ourselves the best we can be in 2011?" I liked the question enough to respond, and I liked my answer enough to share it here with you all.
Reflect, plan and rest. I believe we all need to take time to reflect about 2010 - a) what went well, b) what didn't go well, c) what do I want to improve, d) what dreams do I have - am I dreaming. All these are great things to think about so we can be ready to change in 2011.
Then a) write down your successes and put them somewhere you can remember them for days when you feel like I want to give up; b) forgive yourself for what didn't go right and see if there is something you can change to make it better, c) make a specific plan on how to improve what didn't go well, d) take some time to sit and dream and maybe write the dreams down. But for right now keep the dream(s) tucked in your heart to take out and look over, be strengthened and smile; and, when the time is right, share it and begin to work on it.
Rest - get your body and mind and spirit ready for next year to work. Let it rest. Meditate and spend time with God - preparing your faith for the next fights. 2011 will look better and you'll be ready.
Happy New Year!
Reflect, plan and rest. I believe we all need to take time to reflect about 2010 - a) what went well, b) what didn't go well, c) what do I want to improve, d) what dreams do I have - am I dreaming. All these are great things to think about so we can be ready to change in 2011.
Then a) write down your successes and put them somewhere you can remember them for days when you feel like I want to give up; b) forgive yourself for what didn't go right and see if there is something you can change to make it better, c) make a specific plan on how to improve what didn't go well, d) take some time to sit and dream and maybe write the dreams down. But for right now keep the dream(s) tucked in your heart to take out and look over, be strengthened and smile; and, when the time is right, share it and begin to work on it.
Rest - get your body and mind and spirit ready for next year to work. Let it rest. Meditate and spend time with God - preparing your faith for the next fights. 2011 will look better and you'll be ready.
Happy New Year!
Sunday, December 26, 2010
Christmas continues....
I've declared it the second day of Christmas!! :) With all this snow, it's beautiful, but I pray no one is going out. Can't wait to get outside and make a snow angel (this time I will have assistance getting up - LOL), and I have to encourage my Dad to make snowcream. Merry Christmas....continued.
Wednesday, December 22, 2010
Traveling Story
Today I presented "The Ragged King" again and afterwards I pondered how far this story has come and gone and continues. The story I told comes from a parable written by Soren Kierkegaard in his book, "Philosphical Fragments." (You can read the whole parable and thoughts at http://trinitypastor.wordpress.com/2009/02/10/kierkegaard-a-parable-of-a-king-and-a-maiden/). This parable was put into another book, which David Jeremiah referenced in his book, "Why the Nativity?"
Donna Thomas, Associate Minister of Music at First Baptist Norfolk, wanted to add a dramatic monologue to a program that our Young at Heart choir was doing. She asked friend, Sarah Brady. Sarah was unavailable and suggested me. Donna also talked to Courtnery and Courtney suggested me and obtained my contact information from Stephanie Freeman, who I went to Malawi with. Donna and I connect and she shows me the parable and asks to make it more of a story. So I come up with 6 mins. that becomes "The Ragged King." I send her the copy of the story (revised slightly just for telling) and she recognizes it matches the pastor's sermon coming up the week after next. She shares with the worship planning team and they ask if I can share this the week after the "Young at Heart choir program" to all 4 services in church.
So, Dec. 5 - I present "The Ragged King" at Young at Heart choir Christmas program for the assisted living/nursing homes. On Dec. 12 - I present "The Ragged King" right before the sermon at all 4 services at First Baptist Norfolk (my home church). On Dec. 13 - Burt Reed calls Mr. Rosser and tells him about the presentation. Mr. Rosser calls my Dad and requests that I come and present at their weekly men's prayer breakfast. So, Dec. 22 - I present "The Ragged King" at the Men's Prayer Breakfast (in Hampton, VA). Today, I was requested by the Sr. Pastor at First Presbyterian Church to present "The Ragged King" at the 5 pm Christmas Eve program.
From the heart of Kierkegaard (1800's) to the ears of those in the 21st century, and it still rings with the same conviction, same revelation about the depth of Christ's love, and is unmistakably the work of God's hand. What we do can have lasting results! Interesting to see where a story travels and how a good story never loses its power. Merry Christmas, Sheila
Donna Thomas, Associate Minister of Music at First Baptist Norfolk, wanted to add a dramatic monologue to a program that our Young at Heart choir was doing. She asked friend, Sarah Brady. Sarah was unavailable and suggested me. Donna also talked to Courtnery and Courtney suggested me and obtained my contact information from Stephanie Freeman, who I went to Malawi with. Donna and I connect and she shows me the parable and asks to make it more of a story. So I come up with 6 mins. that becomes "The Ragged King." I send her the copy of the story (revised slightly just for telling) and she recognizes it matches the pastor's sermon coming up the week after next. She shares with the worship planning team and they ask if I can share this the week after the "Young at Heart choir program" to all 4 services in church.
So, Dec. 5 - I present "The Ragged King" at Young at Heart choir Christmas program for the assisted living/nursing homes. On Dec. 12 - I present "The Ragged King" right before the sermon at all 4 services at First Baptist Norfolk (my home church). On Dec. 13 - Burt Reed calls Mr. Rosser and tells him about the presentation. Mr. Rosser calls my Dad and requests that I come and present at their weekly men's prayer breakfast. So, Dec. 22 - I present "The Ragged King" at the Men's Prayer Breakfast (in Hampton, VA). Today, I was requested by the Sr. Pastor at First Presbyterian Church to present "The Ragged King" at the 5 pm Christmas Eve program.
From the heart of Kierkegaard (1800's) to the ears of those in the 21st century, and it still rings with the same conviction, same revelation about the depth of Christ's love, and is unmistakably the work of God's hand. What we do can have lasting results! Interesting to see where a story travels and how a good story never loses its power. Merry Christmas, Sheila
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